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Posted by doyathink on February 23, 2008 at 4:19 PM
Get over your existentialist self. Just accept the love that is given in your life and be glad for it. Do you really need to have that much validation from the people who love you? In the imortal words of Mr. Boy George…”Love is love is love is love is love.”
Deal with it. You have love in your life…and that is not a bad thing.
As for the Jenny/Pizzababe thing…you are correct…let the woman exorcise the demons from her life in any way that she chooses. If the feelings are real for her, she should get it off of her chest. Those who don’t like it…turn it off. Personally, I don’t listen to the woman’s show, but it is up to her to say what she wants to say. Nobody’s business but her own.
Everybody else? Fuck off.
Posted by afersakajamie on February 24, 2008 at 7:15 PM
agree w/ doyathink.
luv is luv forget about all the technical shih
i saw all ur flickr pics lastnite, i must say there were a bunch of hott guys in there! (oh and the pic of u w/ short hair was hott! u lookd kinda diff. like a bit more idk youthful or w/e) weegie wears glasses? saw that in the flickr pics
u shat on that other podcast episode!? in real life? ur cats used to suk ur dogs dik/ballsack? that’s too funny
thnk u SOO much for doing ur show, i really enjoy it. i feel like a voyeur in some respects. we know soo much about u, buh u dunno that much about us. i did about 4 episdoes of a podcast i call “quasi-cast”, buh i ran outta shih to talk about. some of ur childhood situations remind me of shih i went thru. like being treated mean for being chubby and stuff. noone givs u a manual and instructions on how to be gay and be accepted by the entire world. buh hey, we lern as we go dont we?
and i’ve (personally) noticed that if u lay off dairy products u won’t hav as many digestive concerns. so i switchd to soymilk
a bit of baking soda in a cold glass of water also helps settle the stomach
Posted by Tigger on February 25, 2008 at 7:59 PM
Matt, I can’t help but think that your Jenny comments were directed at me and AJ. I may be wrong…but I don’t think that I am. And after discussing this with AJ…I think you you were talking about the two of us.
Jenny has every right to be able to voice her concerns on her podcast concernin their past relationship. I don’t think that I was telling her “to get over it”. What happened to her really sucked and I feel for her. She can say anything she wants to on her podcast. Just as I should be able to say anything on my podcast. You might not agree with me…but that is your choice not mine.
What I think that you should know is that my comments were really directed at Bawb alone. Bawb was my friend. I met him over two years ago through PizzaBabe. I considered him to me my friend. I went to to Podcast Expos with him. I thought he was being geniune and honest with all of us. Apparently he was not. That is what really sucks in this situation.
I was very upset with Bawb for how he just cut all of us off. Not just Jenny, but all of us, listeners of Pizzababe and the Freak Network. I felt betrayed on some level. I felt like I had been lied too. These were my feelings I was expressing on TiggerCast. I was not trying to tell Jenny to get over it.
It seems to me that you might have taken things that AJ and I said out of context.
Also…I will not censor my podcasts when it comes to saying how I really feel about things.
And lastly, doyathink….how can you make a point of telling what others should say or not say about PizzaBabe when you, yourself, have never listened to her podcast? Not too much credibility there.
Posted by Kalvin on February 25, 2008 at 10:55 PM
I think talking about unconditional love is like talking about if God is all powerful can he make a stone so heavy he can’t lift it? I ultimately think things devolve into meaninglessness because words are ultimately abstractions that aren’t truths in themselves per se (at least in my opinion). Therefore, we can only come to approximations and well, you communication only gets you so far. And no, I don’t believe in unconditional love. I think it’s silly to separate actions from people. That’s just like love the sinner hate the sin. What is the person if not their actions and our perceptions of them? Enjoyed the show!
Posted by doyathink on February 25, 2008 at 10:56 PM
Not to enter into a pissing match in a forum that belongs to someone else, but since you asked, Tigger…pehaps you should examine the sentence you used prior to your attack on me…”Also…I will not censor my podcasts when it comes to saying how I really feel about things.” Why would you ask others to do the same, either through podcasting or responding about Matthew’s show?
I was simply defending the woman’s right to express herself as she feels that she should express herself.
Do you honestly believe that supporting someone’s desire to freely express herself and her emotions requires the credibility you claim that I lack? I have never listened to your podcast, but can still tell that you obviously feel very strongly about your feelings of betrayal.
It is also very apparent that you are an asshole and I would never think of wasting the time to download and listen to what you have to say on any issue.
Enough said.
You no longer exist.
Posted by Tigger on February 26, 2008 at 12:11 AM
Doyouthink. You are entitled to your opinion and I support that.
Posted by bamafarang on February 26, 2008 at 8:50 AM
Interesting cast Matthew,
Some of mankind’s greatest writers have been musing about the meaning of love for how many centuries, and i think it is only natural. Painters have painted masterpieces about it, sculptors have shaped earth and stone in its honor, and who hasn’t read Shakespeare’s works on the subject. Writing is your medium of expression and I throughly enjoyed you talking about love and what it means to you. You know i love me some Mathew!
This podcast community is such a dynamic network of different people from all over the world, and it seems that an outsider/new listener viewed the exchange that has taken place here following this podcast in the wrong context. These individuals who are members of this community/network/family care for each other and I don’t think it is fair to judge based on healthy exchange between loving friends. Tigger, and i think Matthew would agree, is a very kind, big hearted, intelligent, entertaining, friend and his podcasts are like a fine red wine with your favorite dinner. He’s a deep thinker and anyone who has ever bothered to ‘listen’ to his shows could hear the compassion for others often in his voice. I can assure you he’s faaaaaaaar from being that which you label him with. Regards and love you guys!
Posted by PizzaBabe on February 26, 2008 at 11:02 AM
Matt..Tigger…Tom…and DoYaThink…
We are all entitled to think and say what we want. Thats the beauty of it all! If anything gets to me..i find it has nothing to do with the person talking..because i truely believe and love people speaking there mind…but it has to do with an unresolved issue inside me. I just feel lucky so many care about me. Bob didnt effect only me..and Tiggers feelings are real and true. As are Matts and everyone elses. We have a family here..we all work in different ways..and i always feel the love. Im lucky like that. When people have passion and hearts like you all do..it may not always come across right..we all come from different places..but I think the sentiment is the same..in the idea of supporting each other. I love you guys dearly!
xoxo
Jen
Posted by Rebecca Nay on February 26, 2008 at 11:36 PM
Great cast Matthew… Very open and honest… That’s what I like about SBA… I love learning more about your relationship with Weegie. You leave it all out there in ways that few can’t.
Posted by Ramble Redhead on February 28, 2008 at 6:38 AM
Very interesting show and after listening to it I realized my goofy calls were not very good with this serious show.
in regards to anyone who has a show and they wish to get personal like you and I and many other tend to do – I think there is nothing wrong with that. But many podcasters are too afraid to do this and so they always want to be safe and that is ok too. However if you are going to say you have a personal journal podcast then there are going to be times when it is not going to be all good news.
I thought you did a great job on this show and looking forward to more from you.